Luli asked if I would write something to help explain what she is doing because she feels too close to it to describe it clearly herself.

I've spent a great deal of time thinking about that request.

At first, I thought Floral Alchemy was about flowers. Then I thought it was about art. Then I thought it was about beauty. Then I thought it was about storytelling.

I now believe all of those answers are incomplete.

What I think Luli is actually doing is helping people come home. Not home to a place. Home to a relationship.

For most of human history, people lived in constant relationship with the living world. We rose with the sun. We paid attention to seasons. We planted when the soil was ready. We harvested when the fruits ripened. We knew where our food came from, where our water came from, and how our lives fit into a much larger web of living things.

The landscape itself was our calendar. The sky was our clock. The seasons were our teachers. We were not separate from nature. We were participants in it.

Over time, we became extraordinarily successful at insulating ourselves from these relationships. We built clocks, calendars, schedules, buildings, technology, and systems that made life safer, longer, and more comfortable. But there was a cost.

Many of us no longer experience ourselves as participants in the living world. We experience ourselves as observers of it. Something feels missing, though we often struggle to name what it is. We call it stress. Burnout. Loneliness. Restlessness. Disconnection.

We try to solve these problems with more information, more productivity, more optimization, more efficiency. Yet the hunger remains.

Because the thing we are hungry for is relationship.

This is where the flowers enter the story.

Not because flowers are more important than trees, rivers, birds, insects, fungi, or stars. But because flowers possess a remarkable ability to stop us in our tracks. A flower asks almost nothing of us. It doesn't argue. It doesn't lecture. It simply invites us to notice.

And in that moment of noticing, something begins to change. Our attention returns. Our curiosity awakens. The world starts to feel alive again.

— a friend